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Magic Trick: How to get all your groceries without stepping out of the house.

February 17, 2017February 17, 2017Leave a comment

I have always loved doing groceries. Its been one of my favorite things since I was a kid mostly because back then it used to make me feel like a grown up. Now that I am a grown up, it still feels great, but what I don't like about it is the amount of time … Continue reading Magic Trick: How to get all your groceries without stepping out of the house.

First Anniversary – The Present

January 12, 2017January 12, 20173 Comments

We recently celebrated our first anniversary and it was nothing that we planned we'd do on the day yet it was perfect. Faizan and I decided to keep it low key. Do a small lunch with the family (never happened!), go to our favorite place for dinner (never happened). He decided he'll take the day … Continue reading First Anniversary – The Present

One year later – What I learned (Part II)

January 6, 2017January 6, 20177 Comments

As promised, I nagged Faizan till he gave up and decided to have a conversation with me about everything that he learned during the past one year as a married person.If you missed the post I did about my learnings, you can find it here. So without wasting anymore time, I'll get to his part right … Continue reading One year later – What I learned (Part II)

1 Year Later – What I learned.

January 2, 2017January 2, 20179 Comments

Before I begin this piece, I want to clarify that whatever you read below is based on my personal experience and thought process. I completely understand that people lead different lives and not everyone will be able to relate and understand so when we reach that point, we will just move on accepting that fact … Continue reading 1 Year Later – What I learned.

Giveaway Week – Winner no 10

December 31, 2016January 25, 20173 Comments

CLOSED NOW! Before I announce the final winner for this year's giveaway, I have something to say to you guys. Thank you everyone who participated.I was genuinely overwhelmed by the number of entries and tried to fit in as many winners as possible (I started out with 3 winners and ended up having 10!) but … Continue reading Giveaway Week – Winner no 10

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Socially distant since 2015. . Not really with this one but everyone else because safety first friendssss, ok love you miss you. #RantsofaDesiBride #instaBlogger #InstaBlog #PakistanBlog #Pakistan
Before we get on the serious topic, please note how I have censored Sophie and my pappi how it used to be done in old Indian movies lololololol. Since COVID-19 started, there are two times I stepped out of the house. Both for Sophies vaccination. The stress that comes with having to leave the house with your tiny baby, that too for a hopsital or a clinic is just too much. I've been getting a lot of messages from women who are currently pregnant and are worried about the health of their unborn child and themselves; as much as Ip believe they will inshaa'Allah be alright, given they are taking all necessary precautions, I still cannot imagine how stressful this current situation must be for them. Its sad how literally one of the happiest times in their life is being shadowed by this horrible disease. Someone really close to me recently found out that she is pregnant and tells me how freaked out she is constantly, considering the number of blood tests and ultrasounds she needs to get done before covid is really over. Prof Shamsa Humayun, who is the vice president of Society of Obstetrician and gynocologists of Pakistan has a message specially for all the young married couples right now that I wanted to share with you (swipe left). In no way is she or I saying that do not have kids, but its more about making sure you really know what you are getting into considering the current situation. There is a lack of proper available health care facilities, Godforbid the risk of catching the virus and then dealing with all the complications that come with it. Kids are the absolute best and yours too deserve the best and healthiest life - so be safe and prepared for anything that may be coming your way. Bus. Itni si baat. #RantsofaDesiBride #instaBlogger #InstaBlog #Pakistan #PakistanBloggers #COVID19
Sophie and I are clearly struggling with the whole maintaining distance from each other thing. Therefore staying in at all times and the only way we are hanging out with anyone outside our house is through video chat. Hope you guys are all taking care and keeping safe ♥️ Allahumma Barik laha. #RantsofaDesiBride #InstaBlogger #InstaBlog #MashaaAllah #PakistanBlog #Pakistan
These days I am truly understanding the importance of things which on any other day I not just take for granted but infact don't even acknowledge because in my head all those things are my birth right. Lol. Like heading out whenever I want, going to the store to pick up my favorite pack of chips, hugging my siblings, kissing my parents, having a friend over, ordering in, opening doors without spraying an anti bacterial liquid on the knob. You don't understand the significance of anything in life till you lose it. And that stands true for the most basic of things. Hope each and everyone of you is staying safe and staying inside their houses. If we want this to be over anytime soon, we must must must strictly follow all the instructions that we are getting. Praying for everyone who lost their lives, for those who lost someone, for those who are sick and for those who are safe to stay protected, inshaa'Allah Aameen. #RantsofaDesiBride #instaBlogger #InstaBlog #PakistanBlog #PakistaniBloggers
I've always felt very strongly about how women are treated in our society but the feelings have multiplied by a million since Allah blessed me with a daughter of my own. . I don't want my daughter to lack for anything simply because of her gender. I don't want to worry for her safety everytime she goes out just because she is a girl. I don't want to tell her she can't do something because she is not a boy. I wish for a world for her where she is empowered, independent, achieving everything she is capably of achieving fairly. . Living in my own safe space, it's very hard to relate with what women go through on a daily basis. But that does not give me the right to dismiss the issues that are faced by thousands of women everyday in this country. Everyone who is saying that @auratmarch isn't important or is pointless - it is extremely important. It is because no one but women can change their life in this country. This change will take years so be patient but make your voice heard. Year after year. If you disagree with some of the posters, that's fair but it doesn't mean that you start disagreeing with the movement. If you've never faced discrimination because you are a woman, Alhamdulillah for you! But don't say that every woman is as blessed as you are because unfortunately that's not the case. . I urge everyone to go to @auratmarch and stand for what's right. If you don't want to participate just go to observe because social media eventually only shows what is meant to go viral rather than whats important. . . Go march for your future and the future of women in this country. I march for my daughter and the life I want for her. Happy women's day to all of you. May this year start the change we all wish to see in this society. #RantsofaDesiBride #InstaBlogger #InstaBlog #AuratMarch #InternationalWomensday
There is NO such thing as a NORMAL delivery. You either go for a vaginal birth or opt/have to get a C-section for a number of reasons. None of them is easy and in no way vaginal birth any more normal than a C section. In our soceity women who go for a C-sec are often looked upon as a failure which blows my mind away. Many women actually end up in severly complicated states putting both themselves and their children in danger just because they dont want to be called weak or that they took the easier route (which btw in no way is easy). There should be absolutely no shame in opting for a C-section whether its based on need or someone wants to go for it voluntarily. Similarly in a vaginal birth a lot of women dont ask for epidural either due to the myths around it or because they dont want to be told that rhey didnt experience real labor. A woman should be able to go in knowing all her options, prepared for anything, without any pressure or guilt. I feel sad that there is a need to even make this post. And I am genuinely sorry for referring to my delivery as 'normal'. Child birth is child birth. Its difficult no matter how the baby comes out. Don't go around saying crap to those who decide to go either way and if you find someone labor shaming a new mother, call them out on it because this really needs to stop. #RantsofaDesiBride #InstaBlog #instaBlogger #PakistanBlog #Pakistan #PakistanBloggers

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