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Giveaway Week – Winner no 9!

December 30, 2016

Winner no 9 is getting the stuff Faizan and I should be getting because its the ultimate workout motivation package. With all these weddings and wedding food happening, pretty sure we won’t be fitting into the clothes we manage to fit into now kuch ker kara k very soon. But the person who wins this will be sexy as hell very soon.

Winner no 9 will be winning:

1 Women’s Workout T-shirt from C9 Apparel
1 Men’s Workout T-shirt from C9 Apparel
1 Basket of healthy yet delicious goodies from Fitlicious Pakistan
1 Candle from Karachi Candle Company

AND THE WINNER IS: ALINA FATIMA JATOI!

Mubarak mubarak! Please e-mail me ASAP on rantsofadesibride@gmail.com!

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twocrazymedicos says:
December 30, 2016 at 7:06 pm

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Congratulations winner! So many Fatimas have won but not me!😏😂

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Maryam says:
December 30, 2016 at 7:34 pm

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😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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